Learning Objective
LO: Describe key narcissistic (primitive) defense mechanisms—projection, denial, and splitting—and recognize their clinical relevance, including associations with personality disorders.
Narcissistic defenses are primitive, early-developing mechanisms that significantly distort reality. They are commonly seen in children, severe stress, and certain personality disorders, especially borderline and paranoid personality disorders.
These defenses operate unconsciously and aim to reduce overwhelming anxiety or internal conflict.
Activity
Projection
Definition: Attributing one’s own unacceptable thoughts, impulses, or feelings to another person or the outside world.
Key Points:
- Internal states are experienced as belonging to someone else.
- Primary defense in paranoid personality disorder.
- Paranoia results from externalizing unwanted internal experiences.
Examples:
- A cheating spouse accuses their partner of cheating.
- A child says her doll is “sad and angry,” reflecting her own emotions.
Denial
Definition: Refusing to accept external reality because it is too threatening or painful.
Key Points:
- Common immediate response to bad news.
- Frequently seen in substance use disorders.
- Allows temporary emotional protection but becomes maladaptive when persistent.
Examples:
- A patient continues high-risk behaviors after a heart attack, insisting nothing is wrong.
- A woman sets the table for her deceased husband one month after his death.
- An alcoholic insists, “I don’t have a drinking problem,” despite obvious consequences.
Splitting
Definition: Viewing people or situations as all-good or all-bad, with no middle ground. This reflects an inability to integrate positive and negative aspects of oneself or others.
Key Points:
- Primary defense in borderline personality disorder.
- Leads to unstable relationships and intense emotional shifts.
- Contributes to prejudice and stereotyping.
Examples:
- “This doctor is a miracle worker; that doctor is completely incompetent.”
- A teenager says, “He is absolutely perfect—no flaws at all.”
- “Everyone in that family is worthless; they’re all bad.”








